Advice needed

So, my blogger friends, I come to you in need of advice.

The last two years of my life have been extraordinarily eventful and stressful (though not all "bad" stress). Finally, this summer I have the time and means (relatively speaking) to take a nice vacation.

Even though I'm not a beach kind of guy, I really just want to go somewhere for like a week with beaches and bars. I'm kinda thinking about one of those all-inclusive deals, but where it is ok to go by yourself. I'm used to traveling solo to urban areas - and love it - so I'm figuring going to a resort to recharge by myself wouldn't be that weird. But still, I don't want to end up at some family friendly Club Med place or some ridiculous sexcapade in Jamaica or something either.

Any tips? Experiences to share? Companies you've used in the past to book the entire package through?

Thanks!